It’s Day Six of the Summer Holidays and we’re all still here.
I have a plan and I’m sticking to it. It helps that I had Friday alone to write – that’s part of this year’s survival plan.
I can’t give up writing for the summer, much as I want to be that kind of parent: Last year I didn’t write properly again until January.
This is how the holidays are panning out so far:
Son at nursery, so daughter requested that we spend a day doing sewing on the machine.
We went to the knitting shop and bought three fat quarters (who knew material was soooo expensive!) and found an easy pattern online.
I have to do these activities early on in the holidays when my patience bucket is at its fullest.
Even so, I made the green purse by myself while my daughter did cartwheels. But she did help with the bag, including pressing it and gluing on the jewels.
Day started with Monopoly, followed by a trip to the Opticians (where daughter screamed the place down. Sigh), then to the sweetie shop and to a local garden centre to hear a friend play in the local festival.
A delicious lunch of pizza and ice cream followed, and I was feeling like a really good parent. Until we got home to pick up the swimming things and son and I fell out big style. I wouldn’t let him sit in the car without a t-shirt because I didn’t want the seat belt to cut him. He sulked and then asked if I was ready to apologise for being rude (or words to that effect).
Result: I exploded!
Ten minutes of screaming and ranting about ungrateful children etc etc. Sigh. We went swimming two hours later, but only so I could wear them out.
Day 3: Raining, but a good day because both children went to nursery!
Even though my daughter is too old now, the staff love her. My son’s keyworker was as excited as my daughter, and she invited her two daughters in to play too! A great day for all.
I wrote 8,000 words and still got the house ready for visiting rellies.
Day 4: Visiting rellies arrived overnight. I managed to stay awake until midnight to greet them. I also put a loaf on to cook at 7 a.m. and presented a breakfast suitable for Italians at 9 a.m. Then karate at 11 a.m. No idea what we did in the afternoon, slept probably. I still seem to be doing a lot of that this year!
Day 5: Invited my parents to lunch, so went for a run at 9 a.m. rather than cleaning the house. Bored of trying to keep the pigsty tidy already. Walked the dog and took kids to the supermarket to burn off some energy. It’s still raining. Cooked curry (dropped a whole jug of curry sauce all over the floor and DIDN’T CRY, despite taking my meds late on Friday. I did growl at the kids for spilling ink all over the table, but I’m only human.) and crumble and watched the kids pretend to be in a band. Slept from 4-6 p.m. Detecting a theme here…
Day 6: Pyjama Day planned, so I could do more writing. The dog got the hang of relaxing, and I slept curled up with her for an hour, but the children don’t really understand how it works.
Kept shooing them away, and we lasted until lunchtime, although the children ended up with me while I worked, so not sure how much I got done.
Quite proud of my latest story though – Moon Pony – and now just need to find someone to read it!
Lunch ended up being a pancake picnic in the playroom because I’ve given up trying to feed them healthy food already.
The fridge is empty and so is the fruitbowl. I’ve thrown away twice as much as they’ve eaten. I miss school meals when I didn’t have to know whether they ate or not.
We’re now heading off to the park because it’s finally stopped raining and I need to get us out the house. My son is running around in his waterproofs (which happen to be pink because he’s wearing his sister’s) yelling, “Super Pink! Super Pink!”
Only 38 more days to go. Not that I’m counting.